You Have Nothing to Fear About Total Golf Success

Winston Churchill once said,

"Courage is rightly considered the foremost of the virtues, for upon it, all others depend."

The systematic development of the deep down quality of unflinching courage is one of the fundamental requirements for leadership in any field. Fear, or lack of courage, is more responsible for failure in most areas of life, including total golf performance success, than any other factor. It is always fear that causes people (golfers) to hold back, to sell themselves short, and to settle for far less than they are capable of - both 'on' and 'off' the course!

Eliminate Fear and Doubt

I firmly believe that people can BE, DO and HAVE far more than they now know if they could eliminate the fear, doubts and misgivings that consciously and unconsciously interfere with the realization of their full golf performance potential.

Unlearn Your Fears

If there is anything positive about fears is that they are learned. No one is born with fears. They had to be learned. Therefore, they can be equally unlearned. And, if you want to understand the role of fear in shaping the course of your golf experience, just ask yourself,

"If I had a magic wand that would absolutely guarantee my total golf performance success ... no matter what I attempted ... what goal(s) would I set for myself?"

The Great Question

"What one great thing would you dare to dream if you knew you could not fail?"

If you had no fears 'at all' with regard to setting and achieving any golf performance goal you could dream of, what would you do differently than you've done so far? Most of the golfers I ask this questions to can think of many changes they would or could make in their goals, and in their performance strategy, if they truly had no fears holding them back.

The Origins of Fear

The development of courage with understanding the psychological origins of fear. The newborn child has no fears other than the fear of falling and the fear of lour noises - and those fears, naturally, are for self protection. All other fears as we grow into adulthood are learned, primarily as the result of well-meaning but destructive invalidation and/or criticism from our parents, family, friends and coaches.

How Fears Develop

When a curious child gets into things and makes a mess, the parent scolds and punishes the child, eventually building a pattern of fear connected with trying or getting into anything that is new or different. Pretty soon, as adults, we start behaving in ways, and making choices, to do the 'safe' things in life so we don't have to confront the fear of doing something 'wrong' or failing. For most adults, the fear of failure, taking a risk, making a mistake, or losing is very powerful and paralyzes much of our true potential.

Actions Exercises - Reprogramming Fear into Courage!

Here are two suggested 'action' steps you can immediately take that, when done consistently, will enable 'courage' to dominate 'fear' in your game and in life.

1) Imagine that you have no fears at all. What goals would you set for yourself if you were guaranteed total success?

2) Decide what you want and then act as if it were impossible to fail. You may be surprised at how successful you are!

If you'd like to learn more about how to break free from your fears, set new and exciting goals, and accomplish your dreams, then please visit www.CallawayGolfFitness.com and register for a FREE consultation or call directly at: 630-567-7572.

Setting Your Goals

In my conversations and personal dealings with hundreds of top salespeople, athletes and entrepreneurs over the years, I have found that they all have one thing in common. They have taken the time to sit down and create a clear blueprint for themselves and their future lives. Even if they started the process of goal setting and personal strategic planning with a little skepticism, every one of them has become a true believer.

Becoming a True Believer
Every one of them has been amazed at the incredible power of goal setting and strategic planning. Every one of them has accomplished far more than they ever believed possible in selling and they attribute their success to the deliberate process of thinking through every aspect of their work and their lives, and then developing a detailed, written road map to get them to where they wanted to go.

The Definition of Success
Success and the happiness that comes from being successful has been defined as,

"The progressive realization of a worthy ideal, or goal."

When you are working progressively, step-by-step toward something that is important to you, you generate within yourself a continuous feeling of success and achievement. You feel more positive and motivated. You feel more in control of your own life. You feel happier and more fulfilled. You feel like a winner, and you soon develop the psychological momentum that enables you to overcome obstacles and plough through adversity as you move toward achieving the goals that are most important to you.

Determine Your Values
Personal strategic planning begins with your determining what it is you believe in and stand for-your values. Your values lie at the very core of everything you are as a human being. Your values are the unifying principles and core beliefs of your personality and your character. The virtues and qualities that you stand for are what constitute the person you have become from the beginning of your life to this moment.

Your values, virtues and inner beliefs are the axle around which the wheel of your life turns. All improvement in your life begins with you clarifying your true values and then committing yourself to live consistent with them.

Fuzzy or Clear?
Successful people are successful because they are very clear about their values. Unsuccessful people are fuzzy or unsure. Complete failures have no real values at all.

Build Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem
Values clarification is the beginning exercise in building self-confidence, self-esteem and personal character. When you take the time to think through your fundamental values, and then commit yourself to living your life consistent with them, you feel a surge of mental strength and well-being. You feel stronger and more capable. You feel more centered in the universe and more competent of accomplishing the goals you set for yourself.

Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas into action.

1) Decide for yourself what makes you truly happy and then organize your life around it. Write down your goals and make plans to achieve them.

2) Begin with your values by deciding what it is you stand for and believe in. Commit yourself to live congruently (consistent with your inner most convictions) - and you'll never make another mistake.

"Don't concern yourself too much with how you are going to achieve your goal - leave that completely to a power greater than yourself. All you have to do is know where you're going. The answers will come to you of their own accord, and at the right time."

Earl Nightingale

1921-1989, Syndicated Radio Announcer and Author

The Parthenon Principle in Golf

The Acropolis of Athens was burned by invading Persian forces during the Persian War which ended in 479 b.c. Following the war, the Athenians began rebuilding their city, which culminated in the construction of the Parthenon, the greatest of all Greek temples of the Classical Age.

Dedicated to Athena, goddess of wisdom and patron deity of the city of Athens, the Parthenon stood more or less intact for some 2,000 years until the middle of the seventeenth century, when it was partly destroyed in a war between the Turks and the Venetians.

The Metaphor

The performance goals you are working toward as a golfer are as important to you as was the Parthenon to the Greeks. It took many years of painstaking planning and excruciatingly hard work to affect this magnificent temple. The same is true of your own golf performance. A level of commitment that was quite extraordinary was essential to the ultimate success of the Athenians' undertaking. No less is required of you. Like the Parthenon, your total golf performance is also supported by pillars, each of which is central to its integrity and its survival. The Parthenon was "built to last." So too, your golf performance achievements must be based on rock-solid principles.

The Principle

Imagine the result of a small increase in the strength of each of the supporting pillars of the Parthenon. As each is strengthened, it will affect the robustness—the durability—of the structure. Clearly, a small change in each pillar will give rise to a large change in the overall structure. The same is true of your golf performance potential. This gives rise to what we call the Parthenon Principle.

Incremental Changes

Golf-specific and customized 'physical' training for your body is now known to be an essential 'pillar' supporting your total golf performance potential - regardless of your level of play. Moreover, within the 'physical pillar' of golf performance, there are the specific physical ingredients including posture, balance, flexibility, strength and conditioning —each of which supports the body as a whole. Improve one and the overall health and physical performance potential of a golfer improves. Improve them all by just a small amount and the golfer will experience a significant increase in health, energy, and performance.

Action Exercise
What improvements could you make in your golf-specific physical ingredients of posture, balance, flexibility, strength or conditioning to make your golf performance goals easier to achieve? How could you alter or improve your physical conditioning to support your golf-specific performance potential? Do you have a golf-specific fitness training professional to help you evaluate your individual physical conditioning needs and to design your customized fitness training program that will meet your needs and keep you safe?

To learn more about golf-specific fitness training or to contact Dr. Paul Callaway directly, please visit www.CallawayGolfFitness.com , email Paul@CallawayGolfFitness.com or call 630-567-7572.

The Little Things

"It's the little things that make the big things possible. Only close attention to the fine details of any operation makes the operation first class."
-- J. Willard Marriott Sr., hotel executive

And, as a golfer, one 'little thing' that you can do that often pays 'big' dividends with regard to your overall golf performance is strengthening your 'core' muscles. Strengthening the 'core' region of our body is helpful for many reasons. However, if hitting the ball farther and with greater accuracy and consistency is important to you, then gaining fucntional strength in your lower and transverse abdominal muscles (core) is critical!

Here is an example of a simple but very targeted exercise for strengthening your core muscles called a 'Pelvic Tilt' ...

1) Lay on your back with your hips and knees bent to about 45 degrees and your feet rested on the floor.

2) Pull your lower abdominal muscles down and into your spine then rotate your pelvis back and flatten your lower back down into the floor.

3) Hold this backward 'pelvic tilt' for 2-3 breaths then relax.

4) Repeat up to 1 set of 50 pelvic tilts per day for up to 5 times per week.

5) Continue doing this level until it becomes easy.

There are many possible advancements of this exercise to progress to when you are ready. However, starting with and mastering this 'basic' level is where you need to start. It is recommended, before you advance, that you contact a golf-specific fitness expert to help you fully customize a fitness program designed to efficiently and safely meet your specific needs.

For more golf fitness information, please visit www.CallawayGolfFitness.com or contact Dr. Paul Callaway directly at 630-567-7572 or Paul@CallawayGolfFitness.com .

How Do You Eat an Elephant?

You've probably already heard the question, "How do you eat an elephant?" Well, no surprises, the answer still is, "one bite at a time."

This simple 'elephant' metaphor has, in most cases, always applied to achieving big goals. How do you achieve a huge goal in life? One step, one task, one measure at a time.

It's interesting though, as the first Golf Fitness Expert to the Pros and golf fitness coach for thousands of amateur golfers, I amazed just how reluctant most golfers are to setting big goals when it comes to their desired performance. Many golfers are hesitant to make 'elephant-sized' goals - perhaps because, from their past experience, they don't really believe that they will be able to play much better!

Golfers will all agree that they'd like to be 'more consistent'. They all will also say that they want 'more distance' and would like to be better 'ball strikers'. But, when I ask them for clarification, very few golfers, regardless of their experience, are prepared to specifically define the exact amount of positive change they would ideally like to experience within their golf performance ... nor, in what time frame.

So, to help them out, I have a 3-step process that helps my golf clients reduce the 'elephant' into bite-size morsels that they can easily chew and digest.

Step #1:Identify Your Most Valuable Element of Change
I start out by asking my golf clients the question,

"What one area of your total golf game, if improved, would make the biggest change in your overall performance?

Step #2: Physical Evaluation
Then, whatever their answer, I perform an evaluation to identify the physical relationship connected to that specific performance factor and design a customized fitness training program based on the findings. In fact, in most cases, if the golfer can tell me what they 'don't like' about their game - what's going wrong - then, I can evaluate what it is about their posture, balance, flexibility, strength, stability, conditioning and/or control that needs to improve in order for them to reach their stated ideal. And, like eating the elephant, we design the program to take one 'bite' at a time until their new structure supports their new function.

Step #3: Customized Golf Fitness Program Design
Once the golfer's structural relationship to their golf performance dysfunction is clear, then designing their step-by-step customized fitness training program becomes quite simple. After all, by law, to achieve the desired function, you first need to create the proper structure. In other words, build 'it' properly, and 'it' will perform the function you design it to perform. No matter what the 'it' of the equation is! And, in the case of golfers, if you design the correct sequencing and integration into the golfer's program that sufficiently takes into account the other essential performance factors including the mental game, professional instruction and club-fitting, it's absolutely amazing how much golfers can accomplish if they break their tasks down into bite-sized pieces, set deadlines, and then do one piece at a time, every single day.

What Do You Really Want?

"Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true."

-- Leon Suenens, Clergyman

If you can tell me what you really want then I can show you how to get it. If you aren't sure exactly that you want ... then that's where we need to start.

It's true, only after we know what we want ... really want ... can we begin the steps of getting it. Sounds simple and even silly to say, doesn't it? But, in my 30 years of working with people to facilitate what they want, I frequently have to help them identify exactly what they want first. Many golfers I interview think they know what they want, but it is either too general or, after some brief discussion and clarification, what they initially thought they wanted isn't what they truly wanted after all!

For example, when I ask, "What do you really want"?, a golfer will typically answer something like, "I want to be more consistent". Good! That's a nice start! But, what does "more consistent" really mean?

And, how do we objectively measure the improvement in consistency? All the experts suggest, for a goal to be proper, it must be specific and measurable. It also must have a deadline and, if it is really the 'ideal' goal, it must create a good feeling inside when we think about already being in possession of the goal's intended result.

So, taking the next clarifying step, I will ask my client, "What specific part of your game would you like to be more consistent"? And, their response will be something like, "I would like to have more consistent ball striking ... I want to hit the ball more solidly". OK! We are now moving in the right direction but we have a long way to go at nailing down what this golfer really wants and having it stated as a goal that is specific, and measurable.

Moving forward, I'll ask, "How are you striking the ball now"? Their answer, "Oh, very 'thin' and sometimes a little 'chunky' , or I'll slice it to the right or pull it hard to the left."

Me: "I see! Just how big a problem is this during a typical practice session or golf round"?
Golfer: "On average, I'm hitting about 4 out of 10 shots poorly right now".

Me: "I understand. How many shots of of 10 would you like to hit well?
Golfer: "That's easy! I want to hit them all perfectly solid"!

Me: "By when"?
Golfer: "I want to hit all my shots perfectly in 3 months ... by the start of next golf season".

Me: "And what would that feel like to hit 100% perfect shots"?
Golfer: "Fantastic! I really would feel like I'm playing golf much closer to my true potential".

Me: "Got it! And, if you continue on the path that you're on ... getting the same performance results you're getting now ... how would that make you feel"?
Golfer: "That would be very frustrating! I might even consider finding something else, more enjoyable, to do other than golf".

Me: "So, how would you put into words, one 'present tense' sentence, what you'd 'really like' to have ... you're 'ideal scene' ... as it relates to your golf game"?
Golfer: "I'm so happy grateful and proud now that I hit 100% solidly-struck golf shots that hit my intended target each and every time".

Me: "Great! Now I totally understand what you 'really' want! And, we can now go to work together to determine what it's going to take to make this your reality on or before the next 3 months to reach your goal".

Do you see the process? We now have a specific goal that is measurable, has a deadline, and would produce the type of emotional connection for the golfer that will inspire and continue to motivate them through the various obstacles that may present themselves in the process of accomplishing this worthy goal.

In summary, there really is nothing more important to think about and make clear for ourselves then, "What do we really want?" ... for our golf game and in life! But, if your not sure, or you want to make it clearer and want/need help creating a strategy for accomplishing your dream result, then let me know. I'd be very happy to help!

Because, if you can tell me what you really want, I can show you how to get it! Guaranteed!

Flu Shot This Season? What Should YOU Do?

The big question surrounding this flu season - especially with all the fear out there about new and stronger strains of flues including the Swine flu, etc. - is "Flu shot or no flu shot?" What should we do?

Obviously, each person has to make their own decision for themselves and for their family after consulting with their physicians. However, I felt compelled to write this blog to give you another possible option to consider before making up your mind about resorting to the flu shot this season.

Prevention, as a health care philosophy in this country has traditionally been a tough sell. Westerners have been slow to take a more proactive roll in their health to the same degree that people from Asia and the Far East have done for centuries. Mostly, we have somehow bought into the 'if it ain't broke - don't fix it' way thinking that thought it was better to live our lives as 'full out' as possible, never caring too much about taking the necessary steps toward keeping our bodies healthy. And instead, placing more concern and financial investment into our 'back-up' system of 'health insurance' to pay for whatever health problems we might encounter in the future - but with no real belief that we would ever get sick or injured ourselves! That only happens to other unfortunate people! Right?

Well, as the cost of treating sickness has skyrocketed in the past 20 years, that reactive way of thinking has now become less and less affordable to most Americans. Moreover, as the 'bugs' that can 'get' us have become more virulent, many people have started to open their minds ... and their pocket books ... to alternative or complimentary methods for preventing sickness and proactively staying well. In fact, it is estimated by top economists like Paul Zane Pilzer in his book, The Next Trillion, that by this coming year, Americans - led by the 'baby boomers' - will be spending one trillion dollars on products and services that prevent sickness and help keep them well!

As a physical therapist, performance enhancement specialist and wellness consultant, I've joined the ranks of health care professionals who support the movement for integrative and complementary 'wellcare'. I believe that we can and should take greater proactive responsibility for our own health and wellness. I believe that each person (family) should take a page from the global leaders in total health ... Japan ... and establish a 'well care' team composed of the full range health care and well care experts including medical doctors, psychologists, physical therapists, and nutrition counselors to name a few. We should meet with our team and design a specific plan for staying healthy starting with a philosophy and definition of total wellness that includes a balance in five key areas called the '5 Pillars of Health':

1) Mind
2) Body
3) Family
4) Society
5) Finances

In addition to regular check-ups including 'early-detection' diagnostic testing, our prevention plan should also develop specific strategies for our diet, exercise, stress-management and recovery, and body structural rebalancing. Professional guidance and support should be provided for proper sleep quality, hydration quality, and other essential elements for creating a 'wellness home' and/or office environment ... the places where we spend the most time ... to provide our total, natural 'energy' needs that will help keep us well.

In the Spring of 1994, I got very sick. I was confined to my bed and missed two weeks of work with severe nausea, headaches, body aches, high temperature and body sweats. It turned out that I had a severe sinus infection that ultimately was helped with medicine, rest and time. For a while, however, I thought that I was going to die. I had no real warnings ... no indications, that I was aware of ... from previous symptoms or smaller-degree sinus problems to indicate that this terrible problem was coming. Everything seemed just fine - totally normal - even one day before the sickness started. But when it started, it knocked me immediately off my feet! It is an experience I'll never forget!

But, the silver lining to the story is that, I survived! Plus, in surviving, I came out of this nightmarish experience with a totally different, enhanced appreciation for feeling well and functioning normally. The truth is, when I was in bed, sweating like the Devil, and not knowing what was happening to me, I felt extremely helpless, totally dependent on others, and I was scared!

It is amazing what a stressful, traumatic event in a person's life can do to promote needed changes. I began asking questions and doing research from a variety of health and wellness experts to gather information about how I could do everything humanly possible to prevent this from ever happening to me again! I didn't want to be sick, helpless, and afraid ... any more!

The results? At 53 years of age, I can now honestly share with you the good news that I have never been sick, even for one day, in the past nearly 16 years! No colds, no flues, no headaches, no sinus infections, no medicines of any kind, no missed days of work, no helplessness, no fears, and no doctor visits - other than for my regular 'well care' checkups with my wellness team.

I have successfully been able to optimize my immune system by enhancing my energy support environment both in my home and my office. I have proactively invested both time and money to support my personal and family's total health and wellness objectives. I have adopted the more 'Eastern' concept of 'wellness' being defined as the complete, synergistic balance in the '5 Pillars of Health' - healthy mind, body, family, society and finances. I now leverage state-of -the-art wellness and energy-support technologies that provide sufficient quality and quantity sleep, air, water, nutrition and fitness. I am healthier, have more energy, feel better and accomplish more at 53 than I did when I was 35! What a difference this approach has made in my life...and my family's too!

For me, I have been able to take back the control of my health and answer the question, "Flu shot or no flu shot this season?" I can answer with a definite, "No!" My energy system is completely supporting a bullet-proof immune system function. It really would not matter what 'bug' I would be exposed to any more. I no longer can get sick! After all, it is very well known that bacteria, viruses and germs don't really make us sick - but weak immune systems do!

Therefore, if you want to stay healthy, reduce the fear of getting sick and take back control of your own personal and/or family wellness - forever- then I suggest you create a proactive, customized total wellness plan. I'm sure that I did!

For more information about the specifics of my plan or to discuss how you could develop a comprehensive wellness plan for yourself, please contact me at Paul@CallawayGolfFitness.com .